TMI Tuesday – Risk and Judgement

Risk & Judgement

1. What would you do differently if you knew nobody would judge you?

Hmmm, this feels slightly familiar. I’m not one to be bothered by what people think of me. So no judgement? Meh, I’d do what I do any old day *shrug*

2. Most recently how did you openly express love?

Within the last month. Of course the definition of ‘express love’ may need some definition. I have managed to convince my so that the time I spend with him must equate to saying the words. Honestly I don’t think I love him like I should as a so, but I love him like a great mate.

3. When is the last time you took a sexual risk? What was it?

Last weekend we had sex outside. In the public world though by a quite secluded creek. We couldn’t hear if anyone was coming our way, but they also wouldn’t hear from a ways out. I like outside, it was a first for him.

4. What sexual acts bring you the most pleasure?

Outside. Anything outside ever is a winner, sex outside, Bonus.

5. Is there a belief or attitude that interferes with you creating or pursuing your sexual fantasy?

I don’t think so. Maybe a belief that I can’t trust people preventing me from letting myself go full into bondage.

Bonus: Tell us something you need to stop wasting time doing.

Hmmmm…erm… I’m quite efficient. Maybe working on weekends and checking emails at 0400. I get up by 0430 so emails at 0400 isn’t too bad, I’m not waking and checking and going back to sleep, I’m just starting my day with work. I shouldn’t do that.

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TMI Tuesday – Risk and Judgement

TMI Tuesday – Contemplation 

Contemplation. Life. These are the questions, TMI Tuesday questions.

Life and Living

1. If happiness was a currency, what kind of work would make you rich?

Something with adventure. I’m not entirely sure what. To be fair, my current job does make me really very happy.

2. Are you doing what you believe in, or are you settling for what you are doing?

This is a little more spiritual than I’d generally consider…well I guess I love what I do so I guess that means I believe in it to some extent.

3. If the average human life span was 40 years, how would you live your life differently?

Not very much differently. It do a little less planning for the future, and I’d restore with a few years to go so I can explore with no work style thoughts….

4. Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?

Doing things right. Every old day. I’m not fussed by what people think of me and what I do.

5. If you could offer a newborn child only one piece of advice, what would it be?

Explore.

Bonus: When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?

Unlikely, I’ve done a hell of a lot!

TMI Tuesday – Contemplation 

TMI Tuesday – Shame

1. Tell us a sexual thing/fantasy would you never want your friends to know you like or have done?

Hmmm, interesting one. It depends on the friends. Real friends I’ll tell anything. People who are acquaintances bordering on friends I’ll be more likely to hold back a little. Just a little. Like I’d provide inferences but not come right put and say it. And it would be things like being tied up and exit play etc.

2. Has anyone ever found an item of sexy underwear, a sex toy or perhaps a picture on your phone that embarrassed you?

Nope. It’s difficult to find embarrassing photos when I don’t take any. And anything else on my phone I’m not stressed about *shrug*

3. Do you have any fantasies you could never go through with because you think you would feel ashamed?

Due to being ashamed? Nope. Proper rope bonding I’m not sure I’ll go thru with because the right person needs to be involved for sure.

4. Have you ever felt shame after a sexual experience?

Shame? What’s the point in that?

Bonus:  Share a recent non-sexual moment of shame.

Again, what’s the point in shame? Seems a little to similar to regret to me…not in my books.

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TMI Tuesday – Shame

TMI Tuesday – Start it Off Right

Oh boy, I’m four weeks behind again. So here goes nothing…

1. Would you take a course in advanced sex positions? Why?

Sure, why the heck not? It would be interesting. I’m really not sure how such a course would be run but that isn’t my concern 😉

2. “Did you orgasm?” 
Women: Have you been asked this?

I have been asked, many times.

Women, do you mind being asked this question?

I guess not. It seems odd because I’m not really that quiet when I do cum, but for someone not sure… I guess it’s fair enough early days.

3. “Was it good for you?”

Have you ever asked this question after having sex? Were you ever told “No, it was not good.” If yes, what did you do?

I have asked, again in the early days. Usually more like a how was that rather than was it good. Open Question get better answers than closed. 

The closest I get to a ‘no’ is a ‘sure but it could be better by…’ it’s not like you can do much about that aside from take it in as personal preference. 

4. When was the last time you had a simple, sexy “make out” session? Do you wish you had more purely “make out” sessions?

Sexy make out? I dunno, they usually progress into more pretty quickly. 

5. When is that last time you had a “quickie”– sex lasting 5 minutes or less? How often do you engage in “quickies”?

Erm a few days ago. It was an outdoors quickie. I’d guess maybe monthly. 

Bonus: Think about the person that is/was your favorite sex partner? Why were they your favorite?

Favourite? Really? I don’t think I have one. Like I don’t have a favourite ex, or a least favourite ex.  Hmmm. I enjoyed sex with CR, I’m going to his wedding in a couple of weeks. It will be odd to see him and not snog him.

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TMI Tuesday – Start it Off Right

TMI Tuesday – Getting to Know You

This is TMI Tuesday. We’re Getting to Know You…

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

Anyone in the world, ie no one dead. Heck, regardless I’d live dinner with my grandparents here in Colorado. 

2. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?

Sleep, food, exercise. I don’t need anything more than that. The more interesting the food and exercise the better the day I guess.

3. How much do you like your personality?
(pick just one)

a. A lot.
b. A little.
c. It needs work.
d. I am annoying sometimes.
e. I am difficult, and people have told me so.

A and e. I’m difficult and I don’t care.

4. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?

The body. The more outside and adventurous stuff I can do in life the better!

5. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any ability, what would it be?

To be able to change into a fly on the wall, somehow have the ability to hear conversations. Maybe. I like knowing what’s going on…

Bonus: How do you think you will die?

Quietly with as little fanfare as possible.  Fervent hope that.

TMI Tuesday – Getting to Know You

TMI Tuesday – Important Questions 

TMI Tuesday time–time to answer these…

Important Questions

1. If you are on facebook, when was the last time you had to “unfriend” someone and why?

It’s been a vary long time since I unfriended someone. I am choosy about who I friend. So if I’m done with someone I put them in an acquaintance list that sees only a few posts and unfollow them.

But back to the question, the last time was abouts years ago when I broke up with my boyfriend at the time. I was living in Melbourne Australia. He was living in Brooklyn NY. (we met in Mongolia). We dated long distance for 18 months. I tried to get a job there but it was the gfc time, so no hope. He refused to move to Melbourne, even temporarily, he’d have got a good paying job super easily. So we broke up.  Three months later he was engaged. I unfriended him.

2. What are you addicted to?

I don’t have addictions, I have habits. I’m a routine person and if I get into a routine it will stick. So on that basis, exercise. If I don’t exercise in the morning I get grumpy.

3. What are the first 3 things you do every morning?

Exercise. Shower. Eat.

4. How lucky are you and why?

You make your own luck.

5. What is one thing you’re embarrassed to admit you want to try?

Embarrassed to admit? Nothing really. I do really want to try a threesome. I’ve no embarrassment with that. I want to be tied and fucked. Also not embarrassed about that. Hmmmm…maybe I don’t want to admit that I’m done with this bf. He’s a good lad but I get bored.

Bonus: Are you proud of what you are doing?

Yep. ENR top 20 under 40, c+s engineer rising star. And the reason I love these awards is not because I got them, but because I was nominated. To thunk my colleagues believed I was good enough to win, THAT makes me proud.

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TMI Tuesday – Important Questions 

TMI Tuesday – Dig Deep

Yes, yes…here it is. Another TMI Tuesday.

Digging Deep

1. The last time you had sex, was it urgent or essential? Consider masturbation or sex with a partner.

Last time I had sex it got to being urgent because he was really struggling to cum and I just didn’t know what to do.  Neither did he. I hate that!  I masturbated since, and I’d call that essential, days of not having sex when I basically have it on tap is always hard for me.

2. What should you stop doing? Why?

Stop being self conscious about people watching so I can make myself cum in front of my so. He likes that.

3. What makes you feel strongest? Sexiest?

An awesome bra and matching g always make me feel strong and sexy.  Especially if I get my honey birdette gear on, I love that stuff! Comfortable everyday wear with the slight kink. If anyone reading this checks out hb and knows where I can get similar in America I’d love to know!

4. When do you feel vulnerable?

Rarely these days. I hate being in a room with no one I know but I’m not sure its vulnerable that I feel.

5. What is missing from your sex life?

A bit of roughness. He’s learning to take the lead and to restrain me some, but he’s still very soft and apologetic. He’s getting there.

Bonus: If you left your current lover, what would you miss the most?

The general fun. I am getting that comfortable I’m bored feeling, but I would miss that we can have a laugh on a hike or in bed or chilled on the couch.  Hell, even when he’s sick I get a good laugh out of him!

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TMI Tuesday – Dig Deep